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Learn the truth behind some common myths about suicide
Does asking someone if they are thinking about suicide put the idea in their head?
Do people who experience suicidal thoughts or die by suicide have a mental illness?
Why don’t individuals with suicidal thoughts reach out for help?
Is a suicide attempt a sign of the person’s weakness or cowardice to handle their problems?
Is someone with suicidal thoughts determined to die?
Is attempt to suicide still punishable by law in India?
What can I do to prevent suicides in young people?
No, talking about suicide does not encourage someone to take their own life. People who are thinking about suicide may not know who to speak to or feel worried that they would be judged. Rather than encouraging suicidal behaviour, talking openly about it can help a person open up about their feelings and give them the time to rethink their decision, thereby preventing suicide.
Many people living with mental illnesses do not experience suicidal thoughts, and not all people who attempt or die by suicide have a mental illness. In India, stress related to relationships, sociocultural and economic factors are leading reasons for suicide among young people.
A person who has thoughts of suicide is likely to experience intense hopelessness and helplessness, which might make it hard for them to reach out. They might also fear that reaching out for support won’t help as they might get judged or the other person won’t understand their experiences. Silence and stigma around suicide might make it even harder. So, it’s important to extend support when you recognise warning signs in someone.
Experiencing thoughts or intent to attempt suicide is not a marker of weakness or lack of strength. People who attempt suicide are under immense stress who might not have access to support or care. Further, they might not have the resources to manage their stress by themselves.
People who experience thoughts of suicide are often undecided about living or dying. Signs of suicidal thoughts are an indicator of deep emotional pain. Someone thinking about ending their life might find it difficult to see a way out of their painful situation. However, with adequate support, they may want to overcome their suicidal feelings or find ways to cope with their situation. This is why providing the right kind of support at the right time is important to prevent the person from acting on these thoughts.
Attempting suicide is not a criminal offence. India's Mental Healthcare Act (2017) has decriminalised attempt to suicide due to severe stress. It acknowledges that people who attempt or die of suicide are under severe stress. The Act also contains provisions that offer care, treatment and rehabilitation to someone who has attempted suicide. No legal action can be taken against anyone who has attempted suicide under severe stress.
Anyone and everyone can make a difference and contribute to suicide prevention. Here are a few ways through which one can support those who are struggling with thoughts of suicide:
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